Sex In the Shower

Several of our closest friends have houses on a barrier island off the shore of Long Island, New York, where cars are banned and people walk or ride bicycles everywhere. The homes, situated close together on a narrow strip of land between the bay and the beach, rarely are locked and for our extended group…

Celebrating Father’s Day (The MiddleSexy Way)

This Father’s Day, in addition to the barbecues, brunches and bundles of ties, socks, golf balls, sweaters and bathrobes you have planned, may we suggest another kind of gift for the man you are celebrating: a really good role in the hay. It can be low-key and spontaneous, say Sunday after lunch when the guests…

6 Ways to Turn Your Bedroom Into a Boudoir

Are you stuck in the same old, same old routine in your bedroom? Maybe part of the problem is the bedroom itself. Here are six easy ways you can spruce up your bedroom, making it sexier and more inviting for a little intimacy. Soften your lighting: I’m not getting any younger. And sometimes I don’t…

10 Ways To Flirt With Your Significant Other

Remember how exciting your relationship was when it was new? The flirting and the butterflies in your stomach. Recapture those thrills by updating all your old tricks, and adding a few new ones. Sext him. Tell him what a great body he has or what you want him to do to you when he gets…

Spice Up Your Sex Life: Lose the Underwear

Want to spice up your next evening out with your partner? Leave your underwear at home. Before you recoil and have thoughts of, “No way in hell,” just hear me out. I am a card carrying member of the underwear-wearing group. So that’s what I thought too. Until the other night, when on a whim,…