How To Get In The Mood

Your partner is feeling frisky but you aren’t. Or you really want to do it but you’re too tired or too stressed or too something else. Turn that downtown frown around with any of these MiddleSexy recommendations for getting yourself in the mood. 1)      Read or watch something sexy. Your favorite sex scene in print…

When Love Hurts Break Out The Lube

A few women I know who love sex have started to dread it a little bit. With fewer hormones flowing, their vaginas feel tighter and dryer, and penetration can be uncomfortable. “I never expected that it would hurt,” says a good friend who just turned 50. While there are many remedies for vaginal dryness, the…

Slip Sliding Away

In the video for her new single, “Booty,” 45-year-old Jennifer Lopez covers her assets in a shiny, gooey substance. What is it? She’s not saying, but one lubricant company was so convinced that it offered the pop star an endorsement deal. Lube on the outside? A slippery concept considering that more and more women are…