Seven Simple Ways To Be a Better Lover

Wondering what you can do to kick things up a notch in the sack? Here are MiddleSexy’s top tricks for playing the female Casanova. 1) Start with the pounce. Remember the episode in Sex and The City when Carrie laments that there was “no throwdown?” Instead of a small sign that you are in the…

Regaining My Lust for Valentine’s Day

Over the last couple of years, I’ve fallen out of caring about Valentine’s Day. Maybe it’s all of the commercials for heart shaped necklace pendants or candy and flowers. Or the fact that the valentine displays come out before I get my Christmas tree down. It’s become easy to shun Valentine’s Day. To harden my…

How To Give A Great Hand Job: Part 1

The best hand jobs have one thing in common: They are all different. In other words, they are tailor made for the guy on the receiving end. Some like a slow, gentle build while others prefer a rough tug. There are men who want to be fully engaged from top to bottom, and men who…

A Mother’s Guide to Sleepovers for the 18+ Set

“I feel like I am running a brothel,” my across-the-hall neighbor said one recent morning as we opened our apartment doors for the newspaper. “There’s sex going on in every room!” It was the day after Thanksgiving, and all three of her children had come home from college with weekend guests in tow. For my…

Holiday Hookup at Your Parents’ House

The holidays are quickly coming up. And for many of us, it means traveling to stay with relatives or friends. So here’s a question: Do you have sex when you are staying in someone else’s house? I’ve always been a little leery about getting it on in a guest bed. What if they hear us?…

10 Signs He Wants Some Nookie

Guys aren’t subtle. And they especially aren’t subtle when it comes to letting you know that they want a little action. Here are 10 of the most common ways your partners let you know they are in the mood. (How you respond is up to you. Check out some of the most popular excuses used…

Friday Links: Hands-Free Fun, Aging Soda and More

Did everyone have a good week? MiddleSexy sure did. College applications, homemade tomato sauce and a few good runs. Here’s what we found when we were looking around: A hands-free couples vibrator? Count me in. Eva, by Dame Products, is available via Indiegogo with shipment in February 2015. I bought one. It looks really different.…

Weight Gain? Can’t Blame My Metabolism

I’m fat. Okay, so I’m not fat but I’m heavier now, by almost ten pounds, than I was a year ago. And I liked my weight a year ago. Really liked it. But now my clothes are tight. And I know what has happened. I can’t blame the gain on my 48 year-old metabolism, though…