Sex Quickie: Communication As Foreplay

I’ve been married long enough to know that sometimes people fall in to sex lulls. When time goes by and neither person makes the move and the next thing you know its been two weeks since you’ve been intimate. The best way to resolve this? Communicate. Say it out loud. “Wow, it’s been two weeks…

How To Give A Great Hand Job: Part 1

The best hand jobs have one thing in common: They are all different. In other words, they are tailor made for the guy on the receiving end. Some like a slow, gentle build while others prefer a rough tug. There are men who want to be fully engaged from top to bottom, and men who…

Seven Simple Ways To Be a Better Lover

Wondering what you can do to kick things up a notch in the sack? Here are MiddleSexy’s top tricks for playing the female Casanova. 1) Start with the pounce. Remember the episode in Sex and The City when Carrie laments that there was “no throwdown?” Instead of a small sign that you are in the…

10 Signs He Wants Some Nookie

Guys aren’t subtle. And they especially aren’t subtle when it comes to letting you know that they want a little action. Here are 10 of the most common ways your partners let you know they are in the mood. (How you respond is up to you. Check out some of the most popular excuses used…

The Importance of Kissing

How often do you kiss your partner? And I don’t mean just a peck on the cheek or a brief meeting of the lips in passing. I mean a moment in time when your lips meet and for a few seconds, that’s all that you’re focused on. Taking in the closeness of your bodies. Getting…

A Sexual Dry Spell

Sometimes, my husband and I hit a sexual dry spell. Meaning that days, and occasionally, weeks go by without us having sex. It doesn’t mean that anything is wrong with our relationship. It usually just means that he’s been working late or that the kids have been around a lot or that I’m caught up…

Carnal Knowledge: Ballcuzi

It took me a couple of seconds to figure out the origination of the term, Ballcuzi. See if you get it when I describe how it’s done: A man places his balls into a mug or bowl of a warm liquid, say milk or water. His partner puts a straw into the liquid and starts…

10 Most Common Excuses Used to Avoid Sex

It’s a problem as old as the oldest civilization. We’re not in the mood to have sex but our partners are. And sure, every once in a while, we’ll buck up and take one for the team. But when we really, really don’t want to be intimate, here are the some of the excuses we’ve…

Weight Gain? Can’t Blame My Metabolism

I’m fat. Okay, so I’m not fat but I’m heavier now, by almost ten pounds, than I was a year ago. And I liked my weight a year ago. Really liked it. But now my clothes are tight. And I know what has happened. I can’t blame the gain on my 48 year-old metabolism, though…