Product Review: Ben Wa Balls

Ben Wa Balls are not an easy sell. Their name sounds a little dirty and in order to use them, you have to insert the balls in to your vagina with your fingers. And not everybody is comfortable with that. But they should be. Because the outcome of wearing them is toned vaginal muscles and…

How To Get In The Mood

Your partner is feeling frisky but you aren’t. Or you really want to do it but you’re too tired or too stressed or too something else. Turn that downtown frown around with any of these MiddleSexy recommendations for getting yourself in the mood. 1)      Read or watch something sexy. Your favorite sex scene in print…

Celebrating Father’s Day (The MiddleSexy Way)

This Father’s Day, in addition to the barbecues, brunches and bundles of ties, socks, golf balls, sweaters and bathrobes you have planned, may we suggest another kind of gift for the man you are celebrating: a really good role in the hay. It can be low-key and spontaneous, say Sunday after lunch when the guests…

Product Review: Eva by Dame Products

My Eva vibrator arrived in the mail last week and caused much excitement in my house. But not the kind that you’re thinking. No, it was because the package was almost opened by my teens. But I think we’ve been able to move past that. I had been patiently waiting for this vibe since last…

7 Mother’s Day Gifts (To Buy for Yourself)

Mother’s Day is rapidly approaching. I never expect anything from my husband because I’m not his mother. And my kids, now that they’re teens, usually surprise me with something sweet. But this year, what with college applications and hormones, I’m feeling like I’m going to get myself something. Yes, I deserve it. And then some.…

Carnal Knowledge: Pegging

I was researching sex toys when I came across the term, “Pegging.” Intrigued, I sought out the, ahem, base of this word. What it means: Pegging is a neologism, or a word coined to describe something that previously lacked a name. In pegging, a woman inserts a dildo into a man’s anus, usually while wearing…

Seven Simple Ways To Be a Better Lover

Wondering what you can do to kick things up a notch in the sack? Here are MiddleSexy’s top tricks for playing the female Casanova. 1) Start with the pounce. Remember the episode in Sex and The City when Carrie laments that there was “no throwdown?” Instead of a small sign that you are in the…

Friday Links: Video Vibrator, Clit Rings and More

Happy Friday MiddleSexy readers. We made it through another week of Winter. Which puts us one week closer to Spring! Here’s what we found while looking around. Ever want to film your vagina while you are having an orgasm? Me neither. But I feel better knowing that I can if I want to. Yes, that…