Sex Quickie: Masturbation How To

Masturbation. We all do it. But not everyone wants to admit to it. Whether you admit it or not, here are a few things that will help you in your quest for orgasmic self-love. Set the mood Whether it’s lighting a candle in your bedroom or taking a warm bath, make your environment conducive to…

Product Review: We-Vibe 4 Plus

There’s a little sibling rivalry going on in my sex toy box these days because one of my favorite toys, the We-Vibe 3, has some friendly family competition. I’d like for you to meet the We-Vibe 4 Plus. The changes that have been made to the We-Vibe are, for lack of a better word, orgasmic.…

How To Get In The Mood

Your partner is feeling frisky but you aren’t. Or you really want to do it but you’re too tired or too stressed or too something else. Turn that downtown frown around with any of these MiddleSexy recommendations for getting yourself in the mood. 1)      Read or watch something sexy. Your favorite sex scene in print…

Carnal Knowledge: Pegging

I was researching sex toys when I came across the term, “Pegging.” Intrigued, I sought out the, ahem, base of this word. What it means: Pegging is a neologism, or a word coined to describe something that previously lacked a name. In pegging, a woman inserts a dildo into a man’s anus, usually while wearing…

Seven Simple Ways To Be a Better Lover

Wondering what you can do to kick things up a notch in the sack? Here are MiddleSexy’s top tricks for playing the female Casanova. 1) Start with the pounce. Remember the episode in Sex and The City when Carrie laments that there was “no throwdown?” Instead of a small sign that you are in the…

Diversity is Key to Explosive Sex

Have you and your partner ever fallen in to a sexual rut? You know, where you’re doing the same thing over and over again? Kind of makes it hard to get excited about being intimate, doesn’t it. If you’ve been together 5 years or 25 years, the best way to ensure that your next intimate…

10 Reasons Why You Have More Sex On Vacation

Whether it’s fun frolicking on the beach in the sun or snuggling up by the fire after a cold day on the slopes, being on vacation with your significant other means you’re going to have more sex. It’s a scientific fact. Here are MiddleSexy’s 10 reasons why you have more sex when you’re on vacation:…