How To Give A Great Hand Job: Part 2

In Part 1 of MiddleSexy’s primer on How To Give a Great Hand Job, we explored technique for bringing your partner to that blissful period just before orgasm. Once you have him there, your next step will determine whether he goes off quickly, like a bottle rocket, or takes a longer ride, sending off sequential…

How To Give A Great Hand Job: Part 1

The best hand jobs have one thing in common: They are all different. In other words, they are tailor made for the guy on the receiving end. Some like a slow, gentle build while others prefer a rough tug. There are men who want to be fully engaged from top to bottom, and men who…

Carnal Knowledge: Pegging

I was researching sex toys when I came across the term, “Pegging.” Intrigued, I sought out the, ahem, base of this word. What it means: Pegging is a neologism, or a word coined to describe something that previously lacked a name. In pegging, a woman inserts a dildo into a man’s anus, usually while wearing…

Helping Your Partner Become A Better Lover

We’ve all been there. Sex with a mate that is boring, or even worse, plain bad. Perfunctory foreplay, a hand or tongue that never seems to find the right place or the right rhythm, the thrust that starts too soon or is over too fast. But we also know that sex can be tricky to…

Diversity is Key to Explosive Sex

Have you and your partner ever fallen in to a sexual rut? You know, where you’re doing the same thing over and over again? Kind of makes it hard to get excited about being intimate, doesn’t it. If you’ve been together 5 years or 25 years, the best way to ensure that your next intimate…

The Porno Projector In My Head

In one of my favorite Judith Krantz novels (raise your hand if you learned about sex from reading Judith Krantz), the heroine’s sexual awakening is so intense that she needs to steal away from her office job to masturbate in the bathroom. I know this urge. I once made a long, boring train ride fly…

A Sexual Dry Spell

Sometimes, my husband and I hit a sexual dry spell. Meaning that days, and occasionally, weeks go by without us having sex. It doesn’t mean that anything is wrong with our relationship. It usually just means that he’s been working late or that the kids have been around a lot or that I’m caught up…