How To Get In The Mood

Your partner is feeling frisky but you aren’t. Or you really want to do it but you’re too tired or too stressed or too something else. Turn that downtown frown around with any of these MiddleSexy recommendations for getting yourself in the mood. 1)      Read or watch something sexy. Your favorite sex scene in print…

Helping Your Partner Become A Better Lover

We’ve all been there. Sex with a mate that is boring, or even worse, plain bad. Perfunctory foreplay, a hand or tongue that never seems to find the right place or the right rhythm, the thrust that starts too soon or is over too fast. But we also know that sex can be tricky to…

6 Ways to Turn Your Bedroom Into a Boudoir

Are you stuck in the same old, same old routine in your bedroom? Maybe part of the problem is the bedroom itself. Here are six easy ways you can spruce up your bedroom, making it sexier and more inviting for a little intimacy. Soften your lighting: I’m not getting any younger. And sometimes I don’t…

10 Signs He Wants Some Nookie

Guys aren’t subtle. And they especially aren’t subtle when it comes to letting you know that they want a little action. Here are 10 of the most common ways your partners let you know they are in the mood. (How you respond is up to you. Check out some of the most popular excuses used…

The Importance of Kissing

How often do you kiss your partner? And I don’t mean just a peck on the cheek or a brief meeting of the lips in passing. I mean a moment in time when your lips meet and for a few seconds, that’s all that you’re focused on. Taking in the closeness of your bodies. Getting…

Carnal Knowledge: Ballcuzi

It took me a couple of seconds to figure out the origination of the term, Ballcuzi. See if you get it when I describe how it’s done: A man places his balls into a mug or bowl of a warm liquid, say milk or water. His partner puts a straw into the liquid and starts…

10 Most Common Excuses Used to Avoid Sex

It’s a problem as old as the oldest civilization. We’re not in the mood to have sex but our partners are. And sure, every once in a while, we’ll buck up and take one for the team. But when we really, really don’t want to be intimate, here are the some of the excuses we’ve…

Product Review: We-Vibe III

Whenever I’m asked to recommend a sex toy, my go-to for all levels of experience is the We-Vibe III. The design of this toy is so well thought out and it can be used both alone and with a partner. The unique u-shape of the We-Vibe allows for half of it to sit inside your…