Spice Up Your Sex Life: Lose the Underwear

Want to spice up your next evening out with your partner? Leave your underwear at home. Before you recoil and have thoughts of, “No way in hell,” just hear me out. I am a card carrying member of the underwear-wearing group. So that’s what I thought too. Until the other night, when on a whim,…

Sex Quickie: Foreplay Gets You Both Worked Up

Foreplay, the part of sex that gets you hot and bothered, is sometimes overlooked but is such a crucial and fun part of intimacy. Especially as we get older when the speed with which we get turned on can decrease. Sometimes we need to take matters in to our own hands, though I’m not referring…

Carnal Knowledge: Pegging

I was researching sex toys when I came across the term, “Pegging.” Intrigued, I sought out the, ahem, base of this word. What it means: Pegging is a neologism, or a word coined to describe something that previously lacked a name. In pegging, a woman inserts a dildo into a man’s anus, usually while wearing…

Helping Your Partner Become A Better Lover

We’ve all been there. Sex with a mate that is boring, or even worse, plain bad. Perfunctory foreplay, a hand or tongue that never seems to find the right place or the right rhythm, the thrust that starts too soon or is over too fast. But we also know that sex can be tricky to…

Seven Simple Ways To Be a Better Lover

Wondering what you can do to kick things up a notch in the sack? Here are MiddleSexy’s top tricks for playing the female Casanova. 1) Start with the pounce. Remember the episode in Sex and The City when Carrie laments that there was “no throwdown?” Instead of a small sign that you are in the…

10 Reasons Why You Have More Sex On Vacation

Whether it’s fun frolicking on the beach in the sun or snuggling up by the fire after a cold day on the slopes, being on vacation with your significant other means you’re going to have more sex. It’s a scientific fact. Here are MiddleSexy’s 10 reasons why you have more sex when you’re on vacation:…