6 Ways to Turn Your Bedroom Into a Boudoir

Are you stuck in the same old, same old routine in your bedroom? Maybe part of the problem is the bedroom itself. Here are six easy ways you can spruce up your bedroom, making it sexier and more inviting for a little intimacy. Soften your lighting: I’m not getting any younger. And sometimes I don’t…

10 Signs He Wants Some Nookie

Guys aren’t subtle. And they especially aren’t subtle when it comes to letting you know that they want a little action. Here are 10 of the most common ways your partners let you know they are in the mood. (How you respond is up to you. Check out some of the most popular excuses used…

The Porno Projector In My Head

In one of my favorite Judith Krantz novels (raise your hand if you learned about sex from reading Judith Krantz), the heroine’s sexual awakening is so intense that she needs to steal away from her office job to masturbate in the bathroom. I know this urge. I once made a long, boring train ride fly…

The Importance of Kissing

How often do you kiss your partner? And I don’t mean just a peck on the cheek or a brief meeting of the lips in passing. I mean a moment in time when your lips meet and for a few seconds, that’s all that you’re focused on. Taking in the closeness of your bodies. Getting…

10 Ways To Flirt With Your Significant Other

Remember how exciting your relationship was when it was new? The flirting and the butterflies in your stomach. Recapture those thrills by updating all your old tricks, and adding a few new ones. Sext him. Tell him what a great body he has or what you want him to do to you when he gets…

10 Reasons Why You Have More Sex On Vacation

Whether it’s fun frolicking on the beach in the sun or snuggling up by the fire after a cold day on the slopes, being on vacation with your significant other means you’re going to have more sex. It’s a scientific fact. Here are MiddleSexy’s 10 reasons why you have more sex when you’re on vacation:…

A Sexual Dry Spell

Sometimes, my husband and I hit a sexual dry spell. Meaning that days, and occasionally, weeks go by without us having sex. It doesn’t mean that anything is wrong with our relationship. It usually just means that he’s been working late or that the kids have been around a lot or that I’m caught up…

Carnal Knowledge: Ballcuzi

It took me a couple of seconds to figure out the origination of the term, Ballcuzi. See if you get it when I describe how it’s done: A man places his balls into a mug or bowl of a warm liquid, say milk or water. His partner puts a straw into the liquid and starts…

10 Most Common Excuses Used to Avoid Sex

It’s a problem as old as the oldest civilization. We’re not in the mood to have sex but our partners are. And sure, every once in a while, we’ll buck up and take one for the team. But when we really, really don’t want to be intimate, here are the some of the excuses we’ve…