When Your Teens Know You Use Vibrators

The other day, my teen daughter and I were sitting in the den watching yet another episode of Friends on Netflix when my almost 18 year-old son came through the front door with a FedEx package in his hand. He had been waiting for the return of his headphones that out of town friends had…

How To Get In The Mood

Your partner is feeling frisky but you aren’t. Or you really want to do it but you’re too tired or too stressed or too something else. Turn that downtown frown around with any of these MiddleSexy recommendations for getting yourself in the mood. 1)      Read or watch something sexy. Your favorite sex scene in print…

Sex Quickie: Foreplay Gets You Both Worked Up

Foreplay, the part of sex that gets you hot and bothered, is sometimes overlooked but is such a crucial and fun part of intimacy. Especially as we get older when the speed with which we get turned on can decrease. Sometimes we need to take matters in to our own hands, though I’m not referring…

Sex In the Shower

Several of our closest friends have houses on a barrier island off the shore of Long Island, New York, where cars are banned and people walk or ride bicycles everywhere. The homes, situated close together on a narrow strip of land between the bay and the beach, rarely are locked and for our extended group…

Carnal Knowledge: Pegging

I was researching sex toys when I came across the term, “Pegging.” Intrigued, I sought out the, ahem, base of this word. What it means: Pegging is a neologism, or a word coined to describe something that previously lacked a name. In pegging, a woman inserts a dildo into a man’s anus, usually while wearing…

Helping Your Partner Become A Better Lover

We’ve all been there. Sex with a mate that is boring, or even worse, plain bad. Perfunctory foreplay, a hand or tongue that never seems to find the right place or the right rhythm, the thrust that starts too soon or is over too fast. But we also know that sex can be tricky to…

MiddleSexy’s Favorite Vibrators

Welcome to MiddleSexy’s collection of vibrator reviews! Do you have a favorite? Eva by Dame Products My Secret Lipstick Vibrator Ava Natural Flow Vibrator We-Vibe 4 Plus Want more MiddleSexy delivered to your inbox? Sign up for our weekly newsletter “The Quickie”. SaveSave SaveSave

Seven Simple Ways To Be a Better Lover

Wondering what you can do to kick things up a notch in the sack? Here are MiddleSexy’s top tricks for playing the female Casanova. 1) Start with the pounce. Remember the episode in Sex and The City when Carrie laments that there was “no throwdown?” Instead of a small sign that you are in the…

Diversity is Key to Explosive Sex

Have you and your partner ever fallen in to a sexual rut? You know, where you’re doing the same thing over and over again? Kind of makes it hard to get excited about being intimate, doesn’t it. If you’ve been together 5 years or 25 years, the best way to ensure that your next intimate…