How To Get In The Mood

Your partner is feeling frisky but you aren’t. Or you really want to do it but you’re too tired or too stressed or too something else. Turn that downtown frown around with any of these MiddleSexy recommendations for getting yourself in the mood. 1)      Read or watch something sexy. Your favorite sex scene in print…

Sex Quickie: Foreplay Gets You Both Worked Up

Foreplay, the part of sex that gets you hot and bothered, is sometimes overlooked but is such a crucial and fun part of intimacy. Especially as we get older when the speed with which we get turned on can decrease. Sometimes we need to take matters in to our own hands, though I’m not referring…

Sex In the Shower

Several of our closest friends have houses on a barrier island off the shore of Long Island, New York, where cars are banned and people walk or ride bicycles everywhere. The homes, situated close together on a narrow strip of land between the bay and the beach, rarely are locked and for our extended group…

Helping Your Partner Become A Better Lover

We’ve all been there. Sex with a mate that is boring, or even worse, plain bad. Perfunctory foreplay, a hand or tongue that never seems to find the right place or the right rhythm, the thrust that starts too soon or is over too fast. But we also know that sex can be tricky to…

Seven Simple Ways To Be a Better Lover

Wondering what you can do to kick things up a notch in the sack? Here are MiddleSexy’s top tricks for playing the female Casanova. 1) Start with the pounce. Remember the episode in Sex and The City when Carrie laments that there was “no throwdown?” Instead of a small sign that you are in the…

Diversity is Key to Explosive Sex

Have you and your partner ever fallen in to a sexual rut? You know, where you’re doing the same thing over and over again? Kind of makes it hard to get excited about being intimate, doesn’t it. If you’ve been together 5 years or 25 years, the best way to ensure that your next intimate…

6 Ways to Turn Your Bedroom Into a Boudoir

Are you stuck in the same old, same old routine in your bedroom? Maybe part of the problem is the bedroom itself. Here are six easy ways you can spruce up your bedroom, making it sexier and more inviting for a little intimacy. Soften your lighting: I’m not getting any younger. And sometimes I don’t…

10 Signs He Wants Some Nookie

Guys aren’t subtle. And they especially aren’t subtle when it comes to letting you know that they want a little action. Here are 10 of the most common ways your partners let you know they are in the mood. (How you respond is up to you. Check out some of the most popular excuses used…

The Porno Projector In My Head

In one of my favorite Judith Krantz novels (raise your hand if you learned about sex from reading Judith Krantz), the heroine’s sexual awakening is so intense that she needs to steal away from her office job to masturbate in the bathroom. I know this urge. I once made a long, boring train ride fly…

10 Reasons Why You Have More Sex On Vacation

Whether it’s fun frolicking on the beach in the sun or snuggling up by the fire after a cold day on the slopes, being on vacation with your significant other means you’re going to have more sex. It’s a scientific fact. Here are MiddleSexy’s 10 reasons why you have more sex when you’re on vacation:…