Sex Quickie: Communication As Foreplay

I’ve been married long enough to know that sometimes people fall in to sex lulls. When time goes by and neither person makes the move and the next thing you know its been two weeks since you’ve been intimate. The best way to resolve this? Communicate. Say it out loud. “Wow, it’s been two weeks…

Spice Up Your Sex Life: Lose the Underwear

Want to spice up your next evening out with your partner? Leave your underwear at home. Before you recoil and have thoughts of, “No way in hell,” just hear me out. I am a card carrying member of the underwear-wearing group. So that’s what I thought too. Until the other night, when on a whim,…

Top 10 Movie Sex Scenes Featuring Actresses Over 50

Move over MILFs. We’ve got a new category we’d like to introduce, AOFISS. It stands for Actresses Over Fifty In Sex Scenes, and we found enough good ones to steam up the windows in our computer alcove. Here’s our Top 10 list of sexy actresses age fifty and over going at it on screen, usually…

Sex Quickie: Masturbation How To

Masturbation. We all do it. But not everyone wants to admit to it. Whether you admit it or not, here are a few things that will help you in your quest for orgasmic self-love. Set the mood Whether it’s lighting a candle in your bedroom or taking a warm bath, make your environment conducive to…

Taking One For the Team

Do you sometimes take one for the team? You know, those times when you have sex with your partner when you don’t really want to? You’re tired or you just did your hair or you ate too much for dinner and feel like you’re going to burst. I do it. Because in my marriage, our…

How To Give A Great Hand Job: Part 2

In Part 1 of MiddleSexy’s primer on How To Give a Great Hand Job, we explored technique for bringing your partner to that blissful period just before orgasm. Once you have him there, your next step will determine whether he goes off quickly, like a bottle rocket, or takes a longer ride, sending off sequential…

How To Give A Great Hand Job: Part 1

The best hand jobs have one thing in common: They are all different. In other words, they are tailor made for the guy on the receiving end. Some like a slow, gentle build while others prefer a rough tug. There are men who want to be fully engaged from top to bottom, and men who…

Worrying About Sex (In Your 40’s)

Sometimes, I worry about sex. Yes, me. I know, it’s odd. Right? I mean, I’ve written about sex a lot. I review sex toys. I try to be honest about my sexuality. But here are two of my worries. One, I worry that I don’t put out enough. Sure, hubs and I go through active…

Sex Quickie: Why You Should Masturbate

In the last few years, the world has finally acknowledged that, yes, women do masturbate. (Loud cheering.) And we should. Often. There are many reasons why masturbation is beneficial to us. Here are some of my favorites: Masturbation feels good. Falls in to the use it or lose it campaign of anti-aging. Keep those vaginal…