Sex Quickie: Communication As Foreplay

I’ve been married long enough to know that sometimes people fall in to sex lulls. When time goes by and neither person makes the move and the next thing you know its been two weeks since you’ve been intimate. The best way to resolve this? Communicate. Say it out loud. “Wow, it’s been two weeks…

Spice Up Your Sex Life: Lose the Underwear

Want to spice up your next evening out with your partner? Leave your underwear at home. Before you recoil and have thoughts of, “No way in hell,” just hear me out. I am a card carrying member of the underwear-wearing group. So that’s what I thought too. Until the other night, when on a whim,…

Top 10 Movie Sex Scenes Featuring Actresses Over 50

Move over MILFs. We’ve got a new category we’d like to introduce, AOFISS. It stands for Actresses Over Fifty In Sex Scenes, and we found enough good ones to steam up the windows in our computer alcove. Here’s our Top 10 list of sexy actresses age fifty and over going at it on screen, usually…

Sex Quickie: Masturbation How To

Masturbation. We all do it. But not everyone wants to admit to it. Whether you admit it or not, here are a few things that will help you in your quest for orgasmic self-love. Set the mood Whether it’s lighting a candle in your bedroom or taking a warm bath, make your environment conducive to…

Product Review: We-Vibe 4 Plus

There’s a little sibling rivalry going on in my sex toy box these days because one of my favorite toys, the We-Vibe 3, has some friendly family competition. I’d like for you to meet the We-Vibe 4 Plus. The changes that have been made to the We-Vibe are, for lack of a better word, orgasmic.…

Taking One For the Team

Do you sometimes take one for the team? You know, those times when you have sex with your partner when you don’t really want to? You’re tired or you just did your hair or you ate too much for dinner and feel like you’re going to burst. I do it. Because in my marriage, our…

My First Vibrator

After I got divorced, a close friend gave me a vibrator and told me to go home and use it. I was almost 40 years old. And I had never seen one up close before. It was one of those lipstick vibes. Small but powerful. It felt odd to use it that first time. I…

How To Give A Great Hand Job: Part 2

In Part 1 of MiddleSexy’s primer on How To Give a Great Hand Job, we explored technique for bringing your partner to that blissful period just before orgasm. Once you have him there, your next step will determine whether he goes off quickly, like a bottle rocket, or takes a longer ride, sending off sequential…