How To Give A Great Hand Job: Part 2

In Part 1 of MiddleSexy’s primer on How To Give a Great Hand Job, we explored technique for bringing your partner to that blissful period just before orgasm. Once you have him there, your next step will determine whether he goes off quickly, like a bottle rocket, or takes a longer ride, sending off sequential…

Friday Links: Flat White, Hand Jobs and More

We’re eating, drinking and talking about hand jobs here at MiddleSexy. What a great way to start the weekend. Happy Friday! Drinking a Flat White is a brand new way to get your caffeine hit at Starbucks. It’s a latte with less milk and more espresso. MiddleSexy had one yesterday and it was good. Like,…

How To Give A Great Hand Job: Part 1

The best hand jobs have one thing in common: They are all different. In other words, they are tailor made for the guy on the receiving end. Some like a slow, gentle build while others prefer a rough tug. There are men who want to be fully engaged from top to bottom, and men who…

Friday Links: 36 Questions, Blow-Job Bibs and More

Happy Friday from MiddleSexy! Check out some of the interesting and informative links we found this week. Can Dr. Aron’s 36 questions, asked and answered between strangers, make them fall in love? It’s too late for me but does anyone else want to try? Try some of these tips for making your love long lasting.…

Couch Potato Sex

Two good friends recently confided that their men love to fool around while they are watching TV. In one case, the preferred activity is a hand job. In the other, a blowjob is the desired action. For both men, the thrill seems to reference their teenage days, when they were just discovering sex. Back then,…

How To Get In The Mood

Your partner is feeling frisky but you aren’t. Or you really want to do it but you’re too tired or too stressed or too something else. Turn that downtown frown around with any of these MiddleSexy recommendations for getting yourself in the mood. 1)      Read or watch something sexy. Your favorite sex scene in print…

Celebrating Father’s Day (The MiddleSexy Way)

This Father’s Day, in addition to the barbecues, brunches and bundles of ties, socks, golf balls, sweaters and bathrobes you have planned, may we suggest another kind of gift for the man you are celebrating: a really good role in the hay. It can be low-key and spontaneous, say Sunday after lunch when the guests…

Carnal Knowledge: Pegging

I was researching sex toys when I came across the term, “Pegging.” Intrigued, I sought out the, ahem, base of this word. What it means: Pegging is a neologism, or a word coined to describe something that previously lacked a name. In pegging, a woman inserts a dildo into a man’s anus, usually while wearing…

No Reading Glasses for Me!

The first time I noticed it was in a dimly lit restaurant. I grabbed for the candle on the table thinking, “Gee, the type on this menu is awfully small.” In the next few weeks I found the same thing happening when I read the newspaper or sought ingredients on a package label in the…

The Porno Projector In My Head

In one of my favorite Judith Krantz novels (raise your hand if you learned about sex from reading Judith Krantz), the heroine’s sexual awakening is so intense that she needs to steal away from her office job to masturbate in the bathroom. I know this urge. I once made a long, boring train ride fly…