I’ve been married long enough to know that sometimes people fall in to sex lulls. When time goes by and neither person makes the move and the next thing you know its been two weeks since you’ve been intimate.
The best way to resolve this? Communicate. Say it out loud. “Wow, it’s been two weeks since we’ve done it. We need to fix that.” Sometimes bringing it out in the open is all you need to do to get it going again.
I had a similar conversation with my husband the other day.
Me: “You know, you haven’t gone down on me recently. What’s up with that?”
Him: “Well, it hasn’t been made available to me.”
Good point. I’ve since made it available to him and the issue has been corrected.
Yes, it can be that simple.
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