Product Review: We-Vibe 4 Plus

We Vibe 4 Plus allThere’s a little sibling rivalry going on in my sex toy box these days because one of my favorite toys, the We-Vibe 3, has some friendly family competition.

I’d like for you to meet the We-Vibe 4 Plus. The changes that have been made to the We-Vibe are, for lack of a better word, orgasmic.

All of the We-Vibes are designed to use either by yourself or with a partner. And as with the other u-shaped We-Vibes, the top part of the u fits snugly against your clitoris while the bottom part slides in to your vagina.

The new vibe is more compact than the We-Vibe 3 and the lower part of it has been redesigned to have a flat bottom that reminds me of a platypus’ snout, though I’ve never actually seen a platypus. The rounded g-spot stimulator has tiny ridges for extra effect. (And yes, I am a firm believer that there is such a thing as a g-spot.)

One of the major changes with the We-Vibe 4 Plus is that it comes with a wireless remote control. The remote has four buttons to control the intensity of the vibrations and switch between multiple modes, and has a shape that fits nicely in your hand. I thought that it might be distracting to use the remote while being in the moment but it wasn’t because the controls are intuitive.

A few additional features: The We-Vibe 4 Plus is made of a velvety soft medical grade silicone and is waterproof. (Yippee!) And all the parts of the vibe, including the remote and the cord, fit in to a compact carrying case that doubles as a USB-powered charging station.

But really the most amazing thing about the We-Vibe 4 Plus is the We-Connect app that you can download on your smartphone or other compatible device. After setting up an account by entering the serial number found on your box, you sync the vibe and then you can control it via Bluetooth. You can make your own custom vibration playlists, and with the five bonus modes on the app, the combinations are almost infinite. The device interface is very easy to use and sliders on the screen allow you to control the external clitoral intensity separately from the internal g-spot intensity. There is a privacy setting as well so nobody else (ahem, children) can access the app.

And then there is this: Distance play. Yep, you read that correctly. You can be in one place, say at a restaurant sitting across the table from your partner, and they can control what the vibe is doing. Turning it off and on. Making it go from vibrating to pulsing. You can be halfway across the country and they can be home holding down the fort, and you can still engage in a little couples We-Vibe fun. The snug fit of the vibe makes it perfect to wear out and about. (Just make sure you’re wearing underwear.)

With a vibe this technologically advanced, it can take a while to get to know the ins and outs of it. I would recommend playing with it by yourself for a while, using the handheld remote. Once you feel comfortable with the vibe, then download the app. And really start having some fun.

With all of the new features, the We-Vibe 4 Plus is a really great upgrade from the We-Vibe 3. I love when technology and sex toys intersect!


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Disclosure: I received a free We-Vibe 4 Plus sample to review