Diversity is Key to Explosive Sex

OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERAHave you and your partner ever fallen in to a sexual rut?

You know, where you’re doing the same thing over and over again? Kind of makes it hard to get excited about being intimate, doesn’t it.

If you’ve been together 5 years or 25 years, the best way to ensure that your next intimate foray is mutually satisfying is diversity. Change it up in the sack. Don’t focus on just one sexual behavior. Do two or three things in the course of fooling around.

Let’s see, there’s oral sex with you on him and him on you. There’s partnered masturbation which is great for a little foreplay. And there’s even anal sex. (Don’t poo poo it until you give it a try. Start small, with some lube and a finger.)

Then add some sex toys to the mix. I’m a big fan of sex toys, using them both with my husband and without. Try out some anal beads or a cock ring or even a pocket rocket.

One of the best things about having been with your partner for years is the increased level of comfort you have with each other. Which makes it easier to try out new things.

There are an almost infinite combination of things you can do and by mixing them up, you’ll both have a more satisfying experience.

What are you waiting for?

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