How To Give A Great Hand Job: Part 2

Phallic flowersIn Part 1 of MiddleSexy’s primer on How To Give a Great Hand Job, we explored technique for bringing your partner to that blissful period just before orgasm. Once you have him there, your next step will determine whether he goes off quickly, like a bottle rocket, or takes a longer ride, sending off sequential sparks like a firecracker.

Here’s the scene: You’ve got him right where you both want him to be. Now, what’s the best way to finish him off? You have a few options:

Pressure: Some men want you to be relentless, grabbing them and jerking them off as hard and fast as you can. If you go this route, pay special attention to how your fingers or fist run up and down over the head of his penis, where the sensation is most intense.

Lubrication: If you go the pressure route but worry that the motion will desensitize him, you can add a little moisture, either with a commercial lubricant or with your own saliva. This leads us to the next option…

Take Him in Your Mouth:  While this method could technically be considered a blow job, many men appreciate starting with a hand job then climaxing in your mouth. You can start off shallow, using your mouth and tongue on the head of his penis while your hands continue to play with the base and his balls, or you can go deep throat and take the length of him in, using your tongue and some suction to apply the right level of pressure. (His reaction will let you know what that level is.)

Anal Play: If in Part 1 you’ve already successfully wandered the length of his perineum, the sensitive stretch of skin between his balls and anus, take it a step further by running your finger around the opening of his anus, or by gently sliding a well-lubricated finger inside.

The Happy Ending: Hand jobs can require some advance planning on the clean-up front. Every man is different here too. Some will give it little thought before or after, while others will be concerned from the start about where all the semen will go. For your part, you’ll probably want a way to clean your hands that doesn’t mean jumping quickly out of bed and losing the sense of intimacy. Your options here include having a washcloth or hand towel ready. Or you can minimize the mess from the start, by getting it on in the shower or bath.

Regardless of the route you take, remember that much of the fun is in the journey itself.

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