How To Give A Great Hand Job: Part 1

handThe best hand jobs have one thing in common: They are all different. In other words, they are tailor made for the guy on the receiving end. Some like a slow, gentle build while others prefer a rough tug. There are men who want to be fully engaged from top to bottom, and men who want the focus only on the head and shaft. A few penises prefer the cover of darkness, while their bolder cousins find a thrill in public places.

Figuring out what your partner wants is the first step to giving a great hand job. You’ll need to explore psyche in addition to physique, as the best orgasms have as much to do with what’s going on upstairs as with the events taking place down below.

Part 1 of How To Give a Great Hand Job is a guide for getting started. In Part 2 we’ll look at building to the climax, and you’ll want him to get hotter with every stroke. A truly exceptional hand job is all about the journey.

Step 1: You are in research mode. Start out slowly and gently, then gradually add pressure. (His breathing and moans will let you know when you are on the right track.) If possible, situate your body so you can use both hands. Great hand jobs involve as much manual dexterity as possible.

Step 2:  Use one hand or a few fingers to circle the base of his cock, with the goal of anchoring it to maximize sensation. Using your other hand, circle the shaft above the base (and above your first hand) and move your second hand upward slowly, stopping just before you come to the head of the penis. Wait one second, then move your hand down the shaft slowly until it meets your other hand. Do this a few times to gauge response. If you want to get fancy, you can have both hands start in the middle of the shaft, and send one up while you send the other down, then have them meet back up in the middle.

Step 3: As an alternate to Step 2, use the thumb and forefinger of your first hand to anchor the shaft, then use the rest of your fingers and hand to cup his balls.

Step 4: Shift the focus for a bit. Give him a deep kiss on the mouth, and use your tongue. Return to stroking him gently. Your next move will bring you to the basecamp of Mount Orgasm, otherwise known as the head of the penis. You have a few options here. You can remove one of your hands from the base or shaft, and slowly – very slowly because you don’t want to desensitize him or get him off too soon– use your fingers or fist in an up-and-down motion over his glans, the main part of the mushroom-shaped head. Another option is to run your hand the length of his shaft and up and over his head, then do the same in the opposite direction.

Step 5: With one hand still riding his shaft and head, use the fingers of your other hand to gently (or not so gently) wander the length of his perineum, the sensitive stretch of skin between his balls and anus.

These steps, taken individually or in combination, are more than likely to prime the pump. But don’t be in a hurry. In Part 2, we’ll share tips for getting him to a memorable climax.

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